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These are Important Life Lessons I Learned from a Bad Girl
My best friend had a bad reputation but our friendship taught me lessons that still resonate with me today
Jamie was my desk mate in 8th grade. She was vivacious, fearless, and funny. All of the adults called her a bad girl. Every kid wanted to be her friend.
In contrast, I was shy, quiet, and compliant. I concentrated most of my attention on not being noticed. It worked. I was invisible.
It surprised me when Jamie sat with me in the cafeteria one day and said, “Hey, New Best Friend! Can I have your pizza?”
I passed her the pizza slice on my lunch tray and offered her my chocolate pudding.
“You’re the best!” Jamie mumbled through a mouthful of pepperoni and cheese.
I worshipped her instantly.
Jamie loved to push me out of my comfort zone. We tasted every single icecream flavor, even the gross ones. We road the most dangerous ride in the carnival- twice. She pointed out interesting looking people and dared me to ask them questions like,
